Good Touch vs Bad Touch: Do Your Kids Know About Them?

As parents, we all want the best for our children but sometimes, in the hustle of daily life, we might overlook the subtle cues they give us. 

The children need to feel heard, understood, and safe. 

When they don't find this comfort at home, they may seek it elsewhere, which isn't always in their best interest. 

Teaching kids about good and bad touch = setting boundaries

But it also means your child feels comfortable enough to talk about the things that are hard to talk about.

A good touch makes your child feel loved and safe, like a hug from you or holding hands while crossing the street. 

A bad touch, however, might make them feel uncomfortable or uneasy. 

Using examples from daily life to explain this will make it easier for your kids to understand.

Starting these conversations early helps your child build confidence and awareness. 

Just as you teach them about crossing the street safely, teaching them about good and bad touch is a vital part of their education. 

Explain that their body belongs to them, and they have the right to say no to any touch that makes them uncomfortable.

Click here to learn how you can talk to your kids about Good Touch & Bad Touch (or just read through it because this is more informative 😉)

One of the most important lessons you can teach your child is that it’s okay to say NO. 

Whether it’s a hug, a pat on the back, or any other kind of touch, they have the right to refuse if it doesn’t feel right.

Practice this with them at home, so they feel confident to speak up.

The goal here is not just to educate but to build a trusting relationship where your child feels secure in expressing themselves. 

These conversations might feel challenging at first, but they are essential for your child’s safety and confidence.

Till then,

Adios, amigos!